Monday, July 9

All the way out there...

I did something yesterday which was either the most brave and smart thing or the most idiotic thing I have ever done. Only time will tell. I was completely honest with someone about my feelings (I don't do that...sarcasm I do, vulnerability not so much). So please cross your fingers for me guys that I don't get stomped on again. A girl can only get up off the mat so many times before the floor starts looking pretty comfy. Anyone else ever make a best/worst decision? Help me out. Share.

8 Comments:

karma lennon said...

I've made several of those lately. I've been honest on my blog and quickly took that post down and I finally have come to a point with a person where it's either going to be good or we're never talking again. It's hard. But don't give up. The floor really is not as comfy as it seems. Good luck!

His Sinfulness said...

One of my favorite mottoes is, "Go big, or don't go at all." You just went big, and I'm proud of you!

Mayren said...

I've had the priviledge to go all out a few times. To be honest at the very least half of them sucked alot. The others ended ambiable except one. He's the one i have known for 9 years, and married to for almost 3.

When you find the magic- even in small pockets- you have to seize the opportunity.

WNG said...

I really needed that guys, thanks.

Susan said...

I think it's the best decision no matter what the outcome was, wng. Honesty lifts that weight off your shoulders. At least you won't ever have to say "what if.."

I hate 'what ifs'..

Jim Roberts said...

I'm sure your feelings were as obvious to "someone" as they are to everyone who reads this blog. Why should you be afraid to verbalize them?

If I had to guess, "somone" probably feels the same way.

WNG said...

Susan is right, as always, and Jimmy is...Jimmy. I hate the what ifs, but I usually just live with them. Not this time. Wait- I could "what if I hadn't opened my big mouth?!?!" Aarrgghh!!!

Flynn said...

I've moved a lot. It's taught me two things; Firstly, sometimes it can be good to let people take their own time with their own things. The second, and most important, is to always be available, emotionally and physically (not sex, but being around). When it comes to your feelings and your thoughts, the last thing you ever want to find out is that it's too late and now you have regrets about not doing/saying something...

It's hard, but it will be the best thing in the long run. Good show hun!